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    Ex-members: Shambhala, Boulder-born Buddhist organization, suppressed allegations of abuse

    Ex-members: Shambhala, Boulder-born Buddhist organization, suppressed allegations of abuse

    Further Developments in the Case of Former Member Michael Smith

    Further Developments in the Case of Former Member Michael Smith

    Another Former Boulder Shambhala Member Accused of Sexual Assault on a Child

    Another Former Boulder Shambhala Member Accused of Sexual Assault on a Child

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    Momentum & Next Steps - Community of Marpa House

    Momentum & Next Steps - Community of Marpa House

    Further Developments in the Case of Former Member Michael Smith

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    Ex-members: Shambhala, Boulder-born Buddhist organization, suppressed allegations of abuse

    Ex-members: Shambhala, Boulder-born Buddhist organization, suppressed allegations of abuse

    The Denver Post "conducted dozens of interviews with current and former members and a review of hundreds of pages of internal documents, police records and private communications," and published this long and in-depth look at Shambhala's response to allegations of abuse. The article contains many interviews and discussions of how the institution sought to protect itself by re-orienting or suppressing complaints, often through victim-blaming, and how internal processes failed
    Further Developments in the Case of Former Member Michael Smith

    Further Developments in the Case of Former Member Michael Smith

    Message from the Interim Board: Recent Arrests of Former Shambhala Members The Interim Board issued a communication addressing the arrest, stating that neither it nor the International Care and Conduct Panel were aware of any incidents involving Michael Smith prior to his arrest, and that during the subsequent information discovery process, questions arose related to how the case was handled internally by Shambhala leaders in the 1990s. As a result of this, the Interim Board
    Another Former Boulder Shambhala Member Accused of Sexual Assault on a Child

    Another Former Boulder Shambhala Member Accused of Sexual Assault on a Child

    Michael Smith, 54, turned himself in to the Boulder County Sheriff’s Office early Friday after the Boulder Police Department issued a warrant for his arrest on one charge of sexual assault on a child by one in a position of trust, according to the Boulder County Sheriff’s Office. He met the victim through his membership at the Boulder Shambhala Center. The abuse started when she was 13 years old. Boulder police have also been contacted by another woman, who claimed that Smith
    Karme Choling makes decision to rehang pictures, in act of disregard for survivors' mental healt

    Karme Choling makes decision to rehang pictures, in act of disregard for survivors' mental healt

    Last week, Myra Woodruff, the Executive Director of Karme Choling who will be retiring towards the end of the year, sent out a letter to subscribers at Karme Choling, discussing whether or not to rehang the pictures in the shrine rooms of Chogyam Trungpa and Osel Mukpo. After some equivocating, the decision was ultimately made to rehang the pictures. This represents another layer of institutional betrayal, and will likely act to further suppress other survivors from coming fo
    I Don't Need "I Believe You." I Need "I'll Stand Up For You." - Karen Ra

    I Don't Need "I Believe You." I Need "I'll Stand Up For You." - Karen Ra

    Photo: Michelle Spollen on Unsplash The tagline of this article by author and survivor Karen Rain says it all: "When it comes to supporting victims of sexual assault, belief is only the beginning." She directly addresses the state of belief and disbelief associated with reporting sexual assault, and a culture caught between overt and unknowingly victim-blaming and shaming. Through sharing a number of her different personal experiences, Karen seeks to move the conversation ou
    Institutional Betrayal - Carly Parnitzke Smith & Jennifer Freyd

    Institutional Betrayal - Carly Parnitzke Smith & Jennifer Freyd

    Photo by Hannah Busing on Unsplash This paper, from Carly Parnitzke Smith and Jennifer Freyd in the Department of Psychology at the University of Oregon, explores what institutional betrayal is, and the damage it causes. It is very well supported with citations throughout, and explores a number of different examples and instances where institutional betrayal occurs. They describe unhelpful law enforcement and unresponsive legal systems - which can be extended to unresponsive
    How to Respond to Sexual Abuse within a Yoga or Spiritual Community - Karen Rain & Jubilee Cooke

    How to Respond to Sexual Abuse within a Yoga or Spiritual Community - Karen Rain & Jubilee Cooke

    Judge Rosemarie Aquilina at the Larry Nassar trial sets an exemplary and groundbreaking precedent by giving platform to over 150 victims to make impact statements. Any victim was allowed to speak whether they were involved in pressing charges or not. She invited victims to "Leave your pain here and go out and go your magnificent things." This excellent article was written by Karen Rain and Jubilee Cooke, as a result of their experiences within the Ashtanga yoga community and
    When Sexual Assault Victims Speak Out, Their Institutions Often Betray Them - Jennifer Freyd

    When Sexual Assault Victims Speak Out, Their Institutions Often Betray Them - Jennifer Freyd

    This is a very relevant article, written by Jennifer Freyd, who is a professor of Psychology and the University of Oregon. Drawing on a large body of empirical research, Jennifer discusses how institutional betrayal compounds the harm victims experience after an episode of abuse. She contrasts institutional betrayal with institutional courage, and offers 10 general principles that institutions can seek to incorporate in order to properly address situations of abuse and harm
    Letter of Resignation and Departure from Shambhala Community - Katrin Stelzel

    Letter of Resignation and Departure from Shambhala Community - Katrin Stelzel

    Katrin Stelzel has been highly involved with Shambhala over the past 31 years. She was the Joint Managing Director of Shambhala Europe, the Mukpo Family European Secretary, a Transition Task Force member, a representative of the European Potrang and a member of the Shambhala Europe Treasury Council. She recently sent this letter of resignation by email to about 200 friends and colleagues, wherein she discusses some of her reactions to the developments over the past year, and
    Petition to the FPMT Board of Directors by Senior Buddhist Nuns

    Petition to the FPMT Board of Directors by Senior Buddhist Nuns

    In the wake of the allegations concerning Dagri Rinpoche, fourteen highly respected, senior nuns have signed this letter to the Foundation for the Preservation of the Mahayana Tradition (FPMT) Board of Directors. Dagri Rinpoche is a senior teacher who travels and teaches on behalf of this organization. From the letter: "We know that Dagri Rinpoche has released a letter saying he is innocent of two of the allegations. However, multiple allegations have emerged, so an objective
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